Talking to a child about the death of a grandparent

Losing a grandparent in childhood

For many children and young people, a grandparent dying will be their first experience of death and may come as a shock. This might trigger anxiety around the idea of dying.

Some children may not quite know how to express their feelings after a death and may withdraw in reaction to a grandparent’s death.

Talking to a child about the death of a grandparent

• Use clear language and avoid saying things like ‘gone to sleep’ or ‘passed away’
• Be honest with children about how you’re feeling
• Allow them space to talk about how they’re feeling and about death in general
• Let them ask questions and talk about the person who has died

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